A relationship expert answers 14 of your most burning dating questions

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It's possible for these different parts of your personalities parent and love machine to co-exist too. Eventually Hussey offers his advanced flirty patter, which is downright peculiar. Which brings us to logistics. I wish meeting people organically was easier, but especially in a place like NYC, it feels next to impossible!

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Matthew Hussey: Can This Dating Guru Really Help You Get the Guy?

Q: Whenever I even think about asking someone out I just get nervous and panicky and end up bottling it completely... Do you have any advice for asking someone out without looking like a rabbit in the headlights or a complete lunatic or, worse, both? A: The key to asking someone out is to not really ask. In other words, don't feel your sentence needs to end with a question mark. Imagine it like this: 'Would you like to go out this weekend? The other the first one puts them in a spot where they really have to think about whether they're interested. Q: I have a bit of a 'problem' with forcing issues when it comes to dating. If I really like someone I tend to just tell them and get it over with. I'd rather know right then and there if they're going to run. Is there a right time to tell someone that I really like them or even that I'm falling for them? A: It sounds like it's easier for you to just confirm someone likes you than to let things progress naturally. Who's to say this person even knows if they like you yet? The problem is if they're not sure then their answer will sound like a 'no', when in fact it's just an awkward response to a situation they're not sure about yet. It's this particular behaviour pattern that will cause people to run in the first place. People don't want to be put on the spot over whether or not they like you, they want to come to that conclusion themselves. It's ok to let someone know you're interested, but there's no need to go any further than that. If they reciprocate then great, if they don't then you can move on. But don't rush people to an answer that doesn't exist yet. Also telling someone too soon that you are falling for them is unnecessary and a little scary. They'll feel your attraction by watching how you are around them, you don't need to verbalise it too soon. Maintain some sense of mystery. Q: I live in an area not conducive to meeting guys and am the single one amongst my friends so group outings to go out and meet people are hard to arrange. I'm just wondering if you have any tips on how I can get back into the dating scene as it's been a while and I'll be doing it on my own this time. A: Step 1: Talk to everyone around you that you don't already know. Step 2: Say yes to everything they invite you to. Step 3: Lastly, if you find you are not getting invited to things, make a point of inviting them somewhere first, even if it is just for them to try a gym class you go to that you think is cool. Even if they can't make it, it will have a reciprocal effect in getting them to return the favour. Q: I've been in love with my best friend's boyfriend for a while, and now they've recently broken up. Soon afterwards we spent the night together. But now I'm not sure if I should tell her, or what it even means to him. All I know is that I love him. What do I do? A: Well, that is a pickle. Firstly, slow the hell down. It's ridiculous to sit there in love with someone who you don't even know loves you back or even cares, let alone LOVES. If the friendship is the most important thing to you, tell her and get it over with, and ditch the guy since she'll likely never be happy with the two of you together. If it's not, then give it a minute and see what he does over the coming couple of weeks. Does he try to take things further or is he just using you for sex when he needs it. Don't mistake the two! Don't feel the need to push things with him, just make it clear you're open to seeing him again and see what he does. At the end of the day, your friend is the one you're still going to need in tough times, long after this guy is gone, so don't be too let go of that. Q: I am in an emotionally committed relationship with a boy I'm seeing by accident, how do I tell this guy that I am just not ready for this kind of serious commitment yet? A: Tell him you think he's amazing to be around, but you really aren't looking to settle down into anything serious right now. Just don't tell him he's 'nice' I cringe as I even type the word but you don't want a relationship. Q: My friend is dating again after yet another failed relationship. She is in her mid 30s now and the only one that ever came close to being 'The One' turned out the a cheating liar. Have you got any advice that I could pass onto her that might help her quest to find a good guy. A: There's no guaranteed way to meet the one today, but there ways to speed up the process - and being disillusioned by the men she's dated previously is not one of them. We've all dated people who were bad at the time or just in general , but that doesn't mean we won't meet someone who defies our previous odds. But sometimes meeting someone like that requires the hardest thing of all: The belief that people can be better and the willingness to see the best in people. Not easy when you've been through some tough times, but this mentality is what tends to attract the positive, happy people that she wants. Q: I was in a long-term relationship until recently but we've now broken up and I've found myself back in the dating game. Starting again is really scary, especially when you are out of practice. Can you give me some advice? A: It can definitely be tough coming back to the 'game'. Start by making a couple of small commitments to yourself. Maybe it's a commitment to going out and meeting new people a certain number of times a week. It may be a commitment to taking more risks with the people you are attracted to when you see them. It may be a commitment to working on areas of your confidence that aren't strong right now. Looking at the situation this way will allow you to make genuine progress over the coming weeks, instead of feeling powerless. Q: I'm not the most confident person but I'm well aware that confidence is an attractive trait. Do you have any advice to help give the impression that I'm confident? A: Strong body language will always help. Pulling your shoulders back, standing tall and avoiding nervous gestures clutching your bag, constantly shifting your body weight from one leg to the other, biting nails, looking at the floor etc will instantly make you look more powerful. Q: I met this guy three weeks ago. He is fantastic and everything seems so easy with him. I really want him to be my boyfriend. We've been on four dates but I chat to him every day on the phone. He also stayed overnight. How should I approach him about taking it to the next level without seeming too clingy? A: Don't rush things. If you start sleeping with him regularly, eventually you can let him know that you're not sleeping with anyone else, and that you don't intend to while you're with him. You can then gauge his reaction to it, see if he says the same. If he doesn't, and the relationship doesn't progress, there's a whole strategy for that but it would take me longer to write here than I have time for. Grab and you'll get some insight into what I'm talking about! Q: I think am maybe too confident. I have found myself being a bit too confident and basically act as if a guy has got to prove himself to me on a date. Actually that's even if I manage to have a date. I've had one in about a year. A: The need to make sure everyone knows all of the great stuff about us is usually an insecurity in itself. Remember that the most confident people make others feel confident around them. They do this by listening to them, taking an interest, being impressed by them where it's due, and really connecting with them. Sometimes this will involve you talking about some of your interesting features and achievements, but only where it furthers the interaction, never just for the sake of it. Confidence is a feeling YOU have of how great you are, not a need to make sure everyone else knows it too. Q: My other half and I have recently had a baby, and since then we have mostly coexisted with each other. How can we go back to being a couple rather than just parents? A: Start dating each other again! When you get a moment to hand off the baby for a night, dress up for each other it's surprising how easy we can forget how amazing our partner can look and do something fun and new. Eat in a new restaurant, go dancing with friends, have drinks in a sexy bar. There's no need to conform to the baby lifestyle in its entirety. You're still sexy beautiful people at the end of the day. It's possible for these different parts of your personalities parent and love machine to co-exist too. I mean, that's how the baby got there in the first place right? Q: Do you think dating apps and sites are as useful a resource for meeting people as conventional methods? Is there a 'better' way to go about it? Q: It is just that, a resource. It's a way to meet people. But don't live there. Remember that attraction is still in the real world of meeting them in person, and that ultimate goal should always be firmly in our minds when meeting people online. And make sure that even if you are online dating you are still taking risks with people you see out and about, you never know when you're going to run into someone special. Q: Having been in quite volatile relationships before, I'm left wondering, is there ever a 'good' way to end a relationship with someone? And what do you think is the best way to handle things if they turn nasty? A: It's never easy. When it happens some quick tips: 1. Be firm in your decision 3. Be honest about the things you love about them, not just those that don't work 4. Be sensitive to the fact that it's really hard to be broken up with. If things turn nasty put space between you. Once you've removed yourself from the situation, don't feel the need to answer all calls and texts from him. Once you've made your point, don't keep reiterating, it'll only create hope where there is none. Q: So I started seeing this guy, only been dating a few weeks. The other day my housemate brought a guy home from the club. Turns out it was the same guy I've been seeing. My house mate is a guy too. I don't know how to approach the situation! A: I don't think you really need to approach the situation at all lol, other than to double check with your housemate what actually happened, and that he didn't just come home for a lovely little game of scrabble that night.

I have engaged in a novel concept, its called a virtual date, it bridges the gap between where I am geographically and where the man is. Maintain some sense of mystery. Camila Cabello and boyfriend Matthew Hussey at LAX airport. The other day my housemate brought a guy home from the club. Hussey may proclaim to know a lot about the male mind, but his knowledge of the female bladder is sorely lacking. On the other hand a handful can still find the real one but you have to work around it unless you find the right one and the one who is faithfully yours. Matthew doles out advice for eager Cosmo readers who want to know more about what guys are looking for, how to navigate relationships, and tips for successful dating.